In Loving Memory of Matthew Mayer

The Canisius High School community, the University of Dayton family, and countless friends and loved ones are mourning the heartbreaking loss of Matthew Mayer, whose life was tragically cut short in a car accident on July 6. He was just 20 years old.

Matthew, a member of the Canisius High School Class of 2024 and a student entering his junior year at the University of Dayton, was remembered not only for his academic achievements and athletic talent but also for the character and kindness that defined his life. His sudden passing has left an immeasurable void in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

Among those paying tribute is Canisius High School Soccer Coach Orville Roberts, who reflected on the remarkable young man Matthew was both on and off the field.

“I will always remember his bright smile,” Roberts said. “He was the definition of a student-athlete.”

Having coached Matthew throughout his time at Canisius, Roberts shared that some of his most treasured memories were the conversations they had before and after training sessions. He described Matthew as someone who carried himself with humility, kindness, and quiet determination.

“As his head coach, I shared so many behind-the-scenes moments with Matt,” Roberts recalled. “He was such a good person, always kind and mild-mannered. I will always remember his bright smile and our conversations before and after training.”

Roberts also praised Matthew’s unwavering commitment to excellence in every aspect of his life.

“He was the definition of a student-athlete—Honor Society in the classroom, and he worked hard to become a starter and played a big part in our program’s success. We will honor him this coming season.”

Matthew’s dedication extended far beyond the soccer field. He was known as a hardworking student who balanced academic excellence with athletics, earning the respect of his teachers, teammates, coaches, and classmates alike. His work ethic, humility, and positive attitude made him a role model for others and someone whose presence elevated those around him.

Friends remember Matthew for his infectious smile, genuine kindness, and ability to make everyone feel welcome. Whether in the classroom, on the soccer field, or spending time with friends and family, he approached life with compassion, integrity, and gratitude.

His passing has been especially devastating for his family, who cherished him beyond measure. Matthew is lovingly remembered by his parents, Lisa and Tom Mayer ’87; his brother, Joe Mayer ’22; his uncles Bob Mayer ’77, Jim Mayer ’76, and Mike Mayer ’75; along with numerous relatives, friends, teammates, classmates, and mentors who are struggling to come to terms with such a profound loss.

As the community gathers to celebrate Matthew’s life, they will remember a young man who embodied the very best qualities of leadership, perseverance, humility, and compassion. Though his life was far too short, the legacy he leaves behind will continue to inspire everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.

Visitation for Matthew will be held Monday from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at C. Mertz and Son Funeral Home, Inc., 911 Englewood Avenue in Buffalo.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday at 11:30 a.m. at St. Amelia Church, located at 2999 Eggert Road in the Town of Tonawanda.

As family, friends, classmates, teammates, and members of the community mourn this heartbreaking loss, they also celebrate a life that was filled with promise, compassion, and purpose. Matthew’s bright smile, unwavering determination, and generous spirit will never be forgotten.

Though his time on earth ended far too soon, Matthew Mayer’s legacy will continue to live on in the countless lives he touched. He will be remembered as an outstanding student, a dedicated athlete, a loyal friend, and a beloved son and brother whose memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who loved him.

May Matthew rest in eternal peace, and may his family find comfort in the love, prayers, and cherished memories that surround them during this incredibly difficult time.